I help disciples of Christ love well — in marriage, in ministry, and in life.

Pastor. Husband to Olu. Father of two. For over 21 years I have helped disciples of Christ love well — in their marriages, their ministries, and their everyday lives.

My Story

From engineering CEO to church planter — and everything in between.

I hold a Master's in Electrical Engineering. In 2005, I was running a tech startup in Montreal, Canada — building something real, leading a growing team. Then God called me to plant a church. I said yes.

For years I carried both — the business and the pulpit. Eventually I closed the company and gave my whole attention to ministry alongside my wife Olu. Over the next decade we planted four churches across Canada and Nigeria, and I spent those years helping believers navigate the deepest challenges of marriage, forgiveness, and calling.

Then in 2017, something stopped me in my tracks. What followed was one of the most difficult seasons of my life — and also the most clarifying. I began to see what I had been missing in over two decades of ministry: most of the believers around me were succeeding in their careers but starving in their relationships. They loved God. They showed up for church. But they did not know how to love their spouses, forgive the people who had hurt them, or access the love God had already placed inside them.

That gap was quietly draining them. And it became my mission to close it.

"You are not the source of love. You are the vessel. God is the source — and he does not run dry."


The journey

2005
Engineering CEO, Montreal

Running a tech startup while sensing a call to ministry that would not let go.

2005
Church planting begins

Said yes to God. Closed the business. Planted the first church in Montreal alongside Olu.

2005–17
Four churches. Two continents.

Planted churches across Canada and Nigeria. Spent 15+ years helping marriages and families from inside local church community.

2017 →
A turning point. A new mission.

A difficult season brought deep clarity. The Love Workout Method, the BiVo Podcast, and everything I now do grew out of what I discovered on the other side.



What I teach

Love is not something you manufacture. It is something you access.

God has already poured his love into your heart — the question is whether you know how to draw from it. That is what my teaching, coaching, and resources are designed to help you do: access the love that is already there, and let it change every relationship in your life.

Love & Marriage

Moving from frustration and distance to genuine joy and connection — using God's love as the foundation, not willpower alone.

Prayer

Prayer is communion with God, not a checklist. I help spouses and disciples pray with faith, purpose, and real authority over their homes.

Forgiveness

Forgiveness is what love looks like when wounded. I walk people through the process step by step — not as a concept, but as a practice.

BiVo Ministry

For disciples called to both career and Kingdom — learning to carry both without losing either, and making world-changing impact in the process.


Where to start

Ready to go deeper?

Whether you are just getting to know my work or you are ready to take real action in your marriage and your calling, here is how I can help you next.

STEP 1 · FREE

Pray for your spouse

A practical, scripture-based prayer guide for Christian husbands and wives. The best place to start.

Free

STEP 2 - COMMUNITY (Most Popular)

Join Love Catalyst

A community for Christian spouses who want more joy and peace — and less conflict and chaos — in their marriage. Includes the Love Reboot Challenge ($195 value).

$15 / month · Cancel anytime

STEP 3 ·HIGH TOUCH

Work with me directly

One-on-one coaching for Christians who are ready to transform their marriages and step fully into their calling.

Private coaching

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