Love Workout Method (LWM) Premium!
A 12 month private coaching program to get your marriage to the next level of joy, peace and fruitfulness.
If you know that your marriage can be much more joyful, peaceful and fruitful, and you are ready to get it done with the help of a Christ centered coach, this is the program for you and your spouse. This program works even if your spouse is not yet ready or is not available to work with you on the marriage.
Have you wasted months (or years!) stuck not making forward progress in your Marriage?
Your Marriage is stuck. You feel like you’re on a hamster wheel. You’re working harder than ever but not getting ahead. You’re facing the same problems over and over again. You know you need to make a change but you’re paralyzed by uncertainty.
You’ve tried to educate yourself about how to get your marriages out of this rut. You’ve read all the blog posts. You’ve listened to all the podcasts. You’ve attended all the webinars. You’ve read a small mountain of marriage books – but you can’t figure out how to apply most of it to your marriage.
Never Waste Time Being Stuck Again!!
Imagine being off the hamster wheel. Imagine working smarter, not harder. Imagine seeing those familiar old problems disappearing in the rear-view mirror. Imagine having the confidence to act decisively on increasing intimacy and unity in your marriage.
Private Coaching will show you the way!
My private coaching program is for believers just like you who are looking to increase emotional connection with their spouses, have joyful and peaceful communications and make more impact as believers. If your marriage feels stuck, stalled or even on a downward spiral, coaching will show you what’s wrong, what to do about it, and hold you accountable to making progress.
Let's give your marriage a makeover 🥰!!
If you buy a house that has gradually gone out of style. The kitchen is outdated, the floors a little old, the bathroom vanity is dated. A few spot on the ceiling show that there may be leaks in the roof. What will you do? You would probably do some remodelling!
If this is not how your marriage feels, "your building" may have gone out of style and is in need of a makeover.
Let me help you remodel your marriage using a proven framework that has been battle tested for nearly 2 decades.
Benefits of Private Coaching!
- Increased personal joy (without trying harder to please your spouse)
- Have all types of discussions without being triggered
- Greatly reduced number of kerfuffle in the home
- Increased emotional connection - fondness
- More time spent enjoying your home and family
- Clarity of purpose and direction
- Increased Intimacy
...and lots of strategies like:
- Using the right love language
- Understanding your spouses color
- Sowing love seeds
- Filling up your love tank
- Removing masks
- Learning to forgive quickly
- Making better requests
- etc...
The Big Picture
You get 12 months of private and unlimited 24/7 access to me via the members area, voxer, phone or email.
The program includes:
- A kickoff call for initial assessment with you alone, your spouse alone (if available) and both of you together.
- Structured assignments with due dates
- Accountability calls every week for 12 months (except the last week of each month)
- Direct 1:1 access to me via voxer, email, and phone.
- One in-person weekend retreat: the retreat will typically be with a few other couples (2-5).
You can contact me any day or time with questions. I reply within 24 hours but usually more like 90 minutes during business hours.
Kick Off Meeting Agenda:
- Review SOP for coaching program
- Set up Voxer Connection and other contact info.
- Review clarity call answers
- Deep dive into current state and desired future state (couple also)
- Set a recurring meeting with end date for accountability calls
- Set a reminder one month before last accountability call
- Agree on the first set of action items
Accountability Calls
- Calls take place every week via zoom except the last week of each month for the first 3 months. After that we meet twice each month.
- We start with an update on your homework progress
- We agree on next steps based on progress and goals
- I post your todos privately in google doc so we know we’re always on the same page
- You can contact me for any reason between calls however and whenever is most convenient
Things to Note!
- I will never publish any of your communications, publicly or privately. Anything you share with me will be kept in the strictest confidence.
- You are free to record any call for future reference without asking me first.
- You are free to share any of my communications however you like without asking me first.
- You are welcome to call me any time without an appointment, but you’ll probably get my voice mail (I’m on meetings a lot). Your best bet is to leave me message on voxer and I’ll get back to you ASAP.
- If we need to talk real-time, we can schedule a mutually convenient time.
- If you have a truly urgent question, you can text me on my personal cell number.
- There is a 12 months commitment for this program. You can stop if you absolutely need to. However you will need to make all the remaining payments.
- If you’re not happy with our first call for any reason, you can ask for your money back. After that, no refunds under any circumstances.
- You can pause the clock in the event of a family emergency or something of similar seriousness, but not for vacation or because you “got busy”.
Pricing
My Love Workout Method Premium coaching is a 12-month program. The investment is $9,000 USD.
You can apply using the button below but before you do, let me first say this...
Coaching is not for everyone. We go deep. You need to be prepared to change habits, routines, and processes that you’ve been addicted to for years.
Change can be scary. It’s hard for everyone. But if you want things to be better, you have to change something. If you think you’re ready, here’s the link to book a call to discuss next steps:
Praise and Testimonials
I joined this program while seperated and headed for divorce. When I went through the program it changed everything. God used this mentorship to reveal me to me, He used it to heal me and He also used it to equip me to effectively respond to any situation. It transformed my life, my marriage and my family legacy.I am eternally grateful
Joyce taylor
Still Have Questions?
Here are some answers
This coaching program will work for one person but you will get more value of your spouse is available to join you. It is not unusual that you start alone and as things change you can invite your spouse to join you.
Yes! There are two payment plans available: a 3-installment plan and a 6-installment plan. Please note that your total payments will be higher with these plans.
This depends on the amount of work that needs to be done. We will decide together as we progress. Most calls will be done together as the program progresses.
They are usually 60 mins long.
Accountability calls are always on zoom.
Just shoot me an email and ask: ade@adesobanjo.com
About Ade Sobanjo
Ade Sobanjo is a Pastor who has been leading a network of churches since 2005. He has been married to his college sweetheart Olu since 2004.
He is an Enginneer by training, but his love for God led him to respond to God's call to ministry. In his desire to raise a generation of people that love God and make disciple for Jesus, he discovered that too many believers were stuck in their marriages.
Ade decided to prayerfully package all the lessons he has learnt from his marriage of almost 20 years and that of several couples that he has helped in over 20 years of pastoral ministry into a comprehensive roadmap that any christian can follow to move their marriage to the next level of joy and peace. He called this roadmap and training the Love Workout Method.
The Love Workout Method has been used to help many couples around the world. Ade sends daily tips to a list of over 3000 believers who continue to benefit from his wealth of wisdom and grace.
Ade and Olu are blessed with 2 teenage boys!