Become a more Joyful and Peaceful Christian Spouse  quickly even without the initial help of your spouse and without losing your mind or Marriage!!

Tired of working so hard on your marriage only for it to keep getting worse? Learn how to tap into AGAPE and start transforming your life and marriage today!

  • Are you finding it hard to communicate with your spouse without getting into an argument?
  • Are you beginning to have thoughts of divorce even though you know your marriage can be fixed and as a Christian you hate divorce?
  • Have you tried everything you know and still find yourself an unhappy and under appreciated spouse?

Hi, I'm Ade. I help busy Christian transform their marriage from Struggling to Thriving by  following a scripture-based and tested Love Workout Method.

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Please Join the Happy Christian Marriage Inner Circle and You will be the first to know when next the Gold Membership is open!

Here is what you have been told to do when trying to fix your marriage!

  • Be Patient - For how long?
  • Pray some more
  • Fast more
  • Report to the pastor
  • Go to couples counselling (But your spouse says no)
  • Beg them
  • Dress better?
  • Forgive them 
  • Report to the in-laws
  • Ignore them
  • Quit the job that is making you too busy
  • Be more firm
  • Go out on more dates
  • Ah.....

Isn't this overwhelming?  When will all these stop? Can't two people who love themselves have some peace and joy? Truth is all of these things are good at some point but they would not work when you don't do things in the right order and follow the right process.

Or you could use a proven and time-tested scripture based process to recover your joy and 

transform your marriage and home into a joyful and peaceful one.


Here is what happens when you do that:

  • You get back your confidence and your joy
  • You  are able to release all the built-up negative emotions from past hurts
  • You take control of your joy and put an end to roller coaster emotions
  • You become more spiritually connected and win the spiritual battles over your home
  • You communicate more easily and peacefully with your spouse
  • You can share your dreams and visions with your spouse without fear of ridicule 
  • You become more sexually and passionately connected with your spouse

Marriage doesn't have to be so hard!

As a lead pastor since 2005, I have helped very many busy Christians become more joyful as spouses. But before I helped others, I helped myself. I struggled like every other person. I was so sure my marriage would be perfect because I met my wife Olu in the christian fellowship at school. When the disputes started, and I knew that my wife was not happy and I was not happy, I prayed, I talked, fasted, read books and watched videos. Things got better only temporarily....

 I got the breakthrough when things got so tough that we had to called a pastor friend to counsel us....

While she was speaking I got a revelation!

1) A happy marriage is just two joyful people (I am 50% of the marriage. I can change it.)

2) Focusing on changing your spouse doesn't work

Our Marriage changed so much

From that day, I began to focus on the love of God that was already in my heart and it changed the way I operated in the marriage. From that time on until now, every year during our anniversary I wonder how it would be a few years from then because the marriage has been getting sweeter every year?


Do we still have conflicts? Yes of course but we celebrate them now because we have learnt how to turn them into stepping stones to a stronger relationship. We are not afraid of conflicts or challenges, they actually show us area of growth. This can be you.

I have converted all my learning over the past 19 years into  3 simple steps and a roadmap ...

With this Roadmap You Can:

  • STEP 1 - Get Your HEART In Shape (Healing for your heart) 
    Discover and get healed of all the heart wounds (emotional hurt) that you have suffered and may still be suffering from! So that you can be in a great position to trigger a healthy and joyful relationship with your spouse.
  • STEP 2 - Strengthen your CONNECTION with God. Become better at being seen for who you are designed to be by God and take the authority you have in Christ to resit the temptations of the enemy and resistance from well meaning but inadequately informed loved ones. You are able to handle the weaknesses of your spouse without breaking down or getting angry but instead trigger them to rise to a higher level of love and responsibility.
  • STEP 3- Rebuild or Strengthen FriendshipLearn how to increase fondness, passion, partnership and sexual intimacy in your marriage by inspiring your spouse to want to be completely bonded with you even more than when you first began your relationship.

You can get all these by joining the

 Love Workout Method Gold Membership 

In the membership you get videos that train you through the 9 steps of the Blissful Marriage Roadmap so that you have all the steps that you need to transform your marriage and become a happy and fulfilled spouse.

  1. 1
    Marriage Revival Bootcamp Videos: Bite sized scripture based videos of the entire Love Workout Method that show you the blind spots in your actions and help redirect your efforts to things that give you much more effective results.
  2. 2
    Weekly Group Coaching and Training Calls to help with mindset blocks and answer any questions that you may have. All sessions are recorded. You can also send your questions in whenever you are unable to attend. 
  3. 3
    An active community of busy Christians like you who are willing to support one another! This community is not on Facebook! In addition, we have a FREE facebook group where you can connect with over 1,000 believers like you who believe in working on having a thriving marriage.
Sorry the Gold Membership is Currently Closed.

Please Join the Happy Christian Marriage Inner Circle and You will be the first to know when next the Gold Membership is open!

Here are the Bonus courses you get...

This is the library of our records of the Weekly Mindset Calls. 

This is a course that contains answers to burning questions in the hearts of Busy Christians such as: How to deal with anger, how to deal with infidelity, how to deal with a lying spouse etc.

Cheat Sheets and Templates

  • 90 Days daily Activities Schedule to complete the Roadmap and the exercises (30 mins per day investment)
  • Daily Affirmation Framework (For Marriage Revival)
  • Daily Activity Tracker 
  • Marriage Revival Prayer Journal (His and Hers)
  • 30 days Marriage Revival Prayer Prompts (Formatted for Phones)
  • Joy Makeover Cheatsheet
  • Judgement Release Worksheet
  • 3 Step Forgiveness Process Template
  • Forgiveness Clinic Cheat sheet
  • Habits Makeover Cheatsheet
  • Thoughts and Feelings Tracker
  • Mask Removal Cheatsheet
  • Truth Telling Journal for Love Tank Building
  • True Submission Cheatsheet
  • Peaceful Cohabitation Cheat Sheet
  • Love Seed Sowing Checklist (Inspirational)
  • Friendship Rebuilding Cheat sheet
  • Friendship Building Questions (Inspirational)
  • Total Partnership Cheat Sheet
  • Total Partnership Checklist
  • Blissful Union Cheat Sheet

This membership is by invitation. It opens a few times each year! Please take advantage of it NOW while it is open.

Sorry the Gold Membership is Currently Closed.

Please Join the Happy Christian Marriage Inner Circle and You will be the first to know when next the Gold Membership is open!

100% Satisfaction Guarantee

If you are not happy we are not happy. Take a good look at the courses and the support you get for the next 7 days. If for any reason you are not satisfied, just let us know and we'll send you a prompt refund. Also you can cancel your membership at anytime within the members area without reaching out to us.


If you have any questions do not hesitate to ask at ade @ adesobanjo.com

Copyright - Ade Sobanjo