💥If your marriage is NOT AS HAPPY AS you want, and you are CONVINCED that your marriage can be much better than it is right now, BUT your spouse is not on the same page…
…Invest in yourself by reading every word of this post.
Let’s tackle it.
It must have been around Sept 2006, I knew my wife was not happy and I was not happy either. I was doing everything I knew to do.
I prayed, tried to talk, I tried to change and each time, there seems to be some progress, but the changes did not last.
Olu was trying her best. I noticed all the effort she made to be the best wife that she could be, the more she tried, the more frustrated she became because she did not get the transformation she was expecting.
On that day, I knew we had to do something about this problem.
How can two people who love themselves so much be hurting so much?
So we called an older female pastor friend. She came to our house.
We both spoke she gave us some great advice and she left.
I wish I could say that everything changed immediately. Sorry to disappoint you. They did not.
💥 However something happened, I discovered that I could change my marriage alone by working on the right things.
We knew we wanted the best marriage on earth. So we began to study and work and what we came up with has transformed our lives and those of many of the members of the church that we pastor, and our friends.
With these discoveries, I have helped people overcome infidelity, physical abuse, verbal abuse, hopelessness, frustration in their marriages….
Whenever we celebrate our anniversary, here is what we ask ourselves.
”If marriage can be so sweet and gets sweeter every year what would it be like after 27yrs or 40yrs?
Let me tell you there are 5 major steps that you need to transform your marriage.
It doesn’t matter if your spouse is ready to work with you at this time or not. If your spouse is ready, things move faster. However, many spouses catch up later 😀.
💥 If you are ready to take these 5 steps, your life would move from one of frustration and hopelessness to joy, confidence, peace, and hope.
Imagine your marriage getting better every month.🕺🏿💃🏽
Your happy marriage is not the only result. Our boys are so happy in the home that they positively discuss their hope of getting married as soon as they are old enough.
Not only that, we are able to work together on all our projects.
We maximize the benefits of having one another to help, especially when it comes to disciple-making.
I guess you are working very hard like I used to. Some of the things you are working on are the cause of the trouble and some are taking your time away from the real stuff.
I have been helping people for 15 years, you would be amazed to know how many of your actions are actually killing your marriage.
Are you:
- 💧 Praying for your spouse to change,
- 💧 Visiting the pastor’s office a few times a year
- 💧 Calling extended family members to intervene
- 💧 Complaining
- 💧 Begging
- 💧 Shouting
- 💧 Threatening
- 💧 Attending couples therapy
- 💧 Watching videos directed to couples
And still, things are not moving forward?
💥 Then you need to work on the 5 steps.
I want to, not only tell you what those steps are – I want to give you training on HOW to master them.
For years I only shared this with close friends and church members. But after recovering from a stroke in 2017, I felt led by the Holy Spirit to share all the things I have learned with as many people as possible.
I have read lots of books. Some have really excellent advice for couples but very few have information for people who have to fix their marriages alone.
💥💥💥 This training is of extremely high value to anyone who wants to rebuild their marriages on their own with the help of the Holy Spirit.💥💥
If you are CERTAIN of the following:
👉🏾 God wants YOU to be happy in your marriage👉🏾 You are CAPABLE of more peace, Joy and fruitfulness than what you’re currently getting (if you just know the right things to do) 👉🏾 You, like me in 2006 DO NOT want to lose your opportunities in life to grow, raise emotionally healthy children, make disciples & advance.. you are committed to growth in your life on every level…
I want to give you something.
It covers the 5 steps I mentioned earlier and it’ll dive deep into how to master them.
This is the exact replica of how we transformed our marriage the way we did way back in 2006.
Here are the rules: 👉🏾 NO sharing with people who only want to complain about their spouse👉🏾 IMPLEMENT (nothing worse than getting info and doing absolutely nothing with it – if this is you I’m sorry, please don’t bother asking for this)
This is Scripture-based training on how to have more joy, peace, and fulfillment in your life and marriage whether your spouse cooperates with you right now or not.
💥 This works in every nation and every culture. 💥 Get it, implement, and report back. 💥
Do you want it?
“5 steps” in the comments below or send me a DM and I’ll send you the training at no cost to you!!.
LET’S GET MORE JOOOOOY and Happy Marriages!!
Ade ❤️ Sobanjo